Have you ever watched the commercial for Mr. Clean Clean Eraser? There's the part where one of the bottle sprayers asked "what's a sh-o-el?". Too funny.
Reading a lot of frugal blogs, forum, the dishwasher is always mentioned. I have even read some people touting the dishwasher as a water saver compared to a bit of hand washing. I don't know.
I have never owed or used a dishwasher. Not even on vacation when there was one available. Why?
Maybe it's a cultural thing. I grew up washing dishes. At my grandmother's house, we thought it was fun. I was quite a competent dishwasher at the tender age of seven (7). But as I got older, at my house I was the everyday dishwasher. Not fun. This went on for years until I left for college. Spending my Christmas breaks in New York City, my relatives had no dishwasher either, but I was happy to do as I was staying with them on the break rent-free. I also was happy to do a lot of housework as I was bored!
Having my own place, I really don't care much for dish-washing. It's a necessary evil as I see it. However, I have never had the thought cross my mind of getting a dishwasher. I have a double sink which I fill up with an adequate amount of water and wash the few dishes I use on a daily basis. I think if you continuous run the water tap and wash dishes, then obviously having a dishwasher might be a better water saver. Even if you have a single sink, filling up with water and using a dishpan will save water.
But I am a family of one, not four (use to be!). I don't use that many dishes per day. In fact, I leave Saturday dishes for Sunday (yeah!, yeah! you think I'm a nasty girl!).
The principles I apply now can be applied to an entire family. Children do what parents do, it's called emulation. The things I learned early on was what my family did around me, good and bad. I learned to dish-wash at my grandmother's house from my aunts and uncles and my dear grandma. I don't recall my first time, I just recall all us cousins getting excited about who's turn it was. It was not the sole job of one person, it was a team effort at Grandma's house.